DH wants me to wear adult diapers

[Guest]

So DH's kids were born via c-section so he doesn't have experience with actual labor starting. His ex was induced leading to a c-section both times.

He was asking me what happens when your water breaks. I'm like it just breaks? And the water goes wherever you're standing/sitting.

He legit asked if I could just wear adult diapers around my due date. I'm like that's not going to work lol. It's totally mind blowing to him how much water you carry around and that it just comes out wherever you happen to be when it breaks.

With DS my water broke by itself and got all over the bathroom floor. He thinks the idea of cleaning it up is gross so his solution is to wear adult diapers randomly around my due date to catch everything lol.

If he thinks that's gross it'll be interesting to see his reaction if I have a vaginal birth and all the yuck that comes with that lol.

[RedBottoms]

You may want to have a backup person to help you in the labor and delivery process. He sounds like he won't be much help

[Sassy762]

LOL......He's going to faint in the delivery room, lol My Ex-DH did........ both times, LMAOOOOOOO

[RedBottoms]

LOL......He's going to faint in the delivery room, lol My Ex-DH did........ both times, LMAOOOOOOO

I had a c section and DH hid behind the curtain the whole time. He came up once saw a ton of blood on the floor, turned green and went back behind the curtain. I am glad I had my mother there also for backup. I anticipated him freaking out

[Lexy]

You may want to have a backup person to help you in the labor and delivery process. He sounds like he won't be much help

I agree.

[Sassy762]

LOL I was shocked the first time but couldn't stop laughing. It was hard to push and laugh at the same time, lol The second time the nurses put a chair behind him BUT he missed the chair and hit the floor, LOL

LOL......He's going to faint in the delivery room, lol My Ex-DH did........ both times, LMAOOOOOOO

I had a c section and DH hid behind the curtain the whole time. He came up once saw a ton of blood on the floor, turned green and went back behind the curtain. I am glad I had my mother there also for backup. I anticipated him freaking out

[AubreeGrace17]

You may want to have a backup person to help you in the labor and delivery process. He sounds like he won't be much help

I second this.

[Traci_Momof2]

And raising kids isn't messy? All the poop and pee and vomit all over the place? How does he handle all that but not a bit of water on the floor?

With my first my water didn't even break on it's own. I had been in labor for a few hours and still no breakage. The doctor broke it for me in the hospital.
With my second, I woke up in the morning, stood up at the edge of the bed and started feeling a gush. I ran to the bathroom and it all spilled out of me onto the bathroom floor. Mostly on the rug which could just be thrown into the washing machine. The rest on the floor could easily be mopped up. But there wasn't a ton of it and a vast majority of it was clear. Just like someone had spilled a glass of water.

If he can't handle that I don't know how he handles life.

[Lolabearlow]

Lol, he's going to freak out.

[LiveWhatULove]

Mind-boggling. Sorry, he sounds a bit selfish.