I’m old 😭

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Not really but I feel like I am. Bc I downloaded a dating app and it was showing me guys that are 40-45. (Which is actually totally appropriate for my age) And as I’m sitting there swiping I think to myself, why are they all so old? Then it hits me. Oh yeah, bc I’m old. 😭😆
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I remember that age group....40-45....from over ten years ago.

But I totally get where you're coming from.

Just remember-you're never getting older but only better. 😌
just an old coot 😉🌵
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Fri Feb 09, 2024 3:30 pm Not really but I feel like I am. Bc I downloaded a dating app and it was showing me guys that are 40-45. (Which is actually totally appropriate for my age) And as I’m sitting there swiping I think to myself, why are they all so old? Then it hits me. Oh yeah, bc I’m old. 😭😆
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Me too. Look at my username. I have 35 months til retirement and I am tired. Ready to have days to myself and my husband. I did meet my husband, love of my life, best person on planet Earth, on OKCupid 8 years ago, at age 51, so I think getting older is amazing. And I have never had grey hair, all natural brown, which is crazy. So IDK, I am just loving my life now and I want others to know.
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It's all downhill from 21. I'm in my 40s and feel like I'm 1000 years old.
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Embrace it. I'm 50 and wouldn't be young again even if it was possible.
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KendallsMom wrote: Sat Feb 10, 2024 2:44 am Embrace it. I'm 50 and wouldn't be young again even if it was possible.
I’m 37 and while I wouldn’t go back, I haven’t dated since my early 20s. Seeing 40s pop up, idk I guess it caught me off guard lol
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I get it. I sometimes have to backtrack a bit when I see someone who looks really roughed up and find out they're my age LOL.

Dating for women over 40 isn't for the weak of heart. I stopped trying after a few different dudes because they all seem to be looking for a bang maid or someone to play mommy to his kids during his weekends so he can go back to being useless. I also lost count of the dick picks and DM's from dudes saying I'm wasting everyone's time because I'm a roastie past my prime.

I've embraced my age.
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I feel you — sort of, I see all these people in the hospital having heart issues with birth years around my own & hubby’s and think, “wow, why so many young people with heart problems?” And the I have to remind myself, “umm, but are they really that young?” I feel younger than I am, lol.

I mean, and then there is that Miley Cyrus song — “I used to be young” and I am like “B****, we still are young, get outta here with that…what happened to it being all about the climb” LOL
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I was walking around town earlier because I sold my car and was stranded and I ended up walking through the college campus. The moment I realized I'm the parent of a student there and how old my parents seemed when I was in college hit hard. I rarely feel old but at that moment I certainly did.
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