I wont go on a second date with him because he prayed on our date

[Guest]

I went on a coffee date with a friend of a friend. I ordered coffee and a cupcake and he got coffee and coffee cake. We went to sit down and I was going to take a bite when he grabbed my hands and started praying.

It really weirded me out. I know many religious people and none of them have every prayed before having coffee with me. I figured he must be very very religious. I knew right then that we wouldnt go on a second date. I have no desire to date someone who is religious. I am an atheist and it just isnt something I am into.

My sister said it was a dumb reason not to see him again when she asked me about the date. Honestly I dont think it is dumb, I dont want to be with someone who has such different beliefs. This isnt something small... religion is a big deal and it can cause a lot of problems. I would rather be on the same page with something as big as this.

He really liked me and wants to go out with me again. I wont even consider it.

That is my confession lol

[Deleted User 66]

Ok

[Deleted User 66]

Ok

[Pjmm]

I'd at least explain why you won't go out with him. Your views are valid but don't ghost the guy. Just tell him you're an atheist and worried about the religious differences.

[Guest]

I'd at least explain why you won't go out with him. Your views are valid but don't ghost the guy. Just tell him you're an atheist and worried about the religious differences.

I am not going to chance any drama that might come from telling him that. I did tell him a second date wont be happening but he is still asking around about it

[Inmybizz]

ok..just tell him you are busy for the 50 years.

[Shaken1976]

I would tell him why. You don't have to say you are an atheist. I would just tell him you have religious differences that you feel would impede a healthy relationship.

[Masterchemum]

Everyone needs to know what they will and will not accept.

[Guest]

Ok. It's like you're looking for drama. There's none to find in this situation.

[CannotCount]

That would be my last date with them too.