My mother doesnt understand that we don't want to celebrate 4th of july with her

[flowerfunleah]

4th of July parties are fun! Your mother's doesn't sound like a fun one if all people are going to do is get drunk. My birthday is the 4th of July and I'd love to move to another country where it's just another day instead of a national holiday.

[LoveAll3]

I would tell her beforehand that I will stop by for a short visit early but that we have other plans for later.

[Momto2boys973]

So it’s it your idea of fun, big deal. Will it kill you to just go and make the best of it? It’s what grown ups do. Do you think I had a blast this year with 4 of my nephews graduating and me sitting through hours of speeches and boring videos? Tough, yiu do it because it makes the other person happy and you care about that person. Grow up. Not everything is about you, learn to give a little.

[Guest]

So it’s it your idea of fun, big deal. Will it kill you to just go and make the best of it? It’s what grown ups do. Do you think I had a blast this year with 4 of my nephews graduating and me sitting through hours of speeches and boring videos? Tough, yiu do it because it makes the other person happy and you care about that person. Grow up. Not everything is about you, learn to give a little.

Ummmmm....She is doing what adults do. They decide when,where,why and how their family spends time with someone. She doesnt want to go and be around a bunch of damn drunks and that's her right as a person and adult. Why would anyone want their children around a bunch of damn drunks anyway? What child needs to see this or experience this

[Momto2boys973]

That must suck! Not having your birthday revolve around you, as it should, be. One of my best friends was born on Mother’s Day, she a,ways felt her birthday was an afterthought. So let me be the first one to wish you Happy Birthday!

4th of July parties are fun! Your mother's doesn't sound like a fun one if all people are going to do is get drunk. My birthday is the 4th of July and I'd love to move to another country where it's just another day instead of a national holiday.

[Momto2boys973]

Oh, boo boo. It won’t kill her to go for a little while and leave if and when people get drunk.

So it’s it your idea of fun, big deal. Will it kill you to just go and make the best of it? It’s what grown ups do. Do you think I had a blast this year with 4 of my nephews graduating and me sitting through hours of speeches and boring videos? Tough, yiu do it because it makes the other person happy and you care about that person. Grow up. Not everything is about you, learn to give a little.

Ummmmm....She is doing what adults do. They decide when,where,why and how their family spends time with someone. She doesnt want to go and be around a bunch of damn drunks and that's her right as a person and adult. Why would anyone want their children around a bunch of damn drunks anyway? What child needs to see this or experience this

[Guest]

Oh, boo boo. It won’t kill her to go for a little while and leave if and when people get drunk.

So it’s it your idea of fun, big deal. Will it kill you to just go and make the best of it? It’s what grown ups do. Do you think I had a blast this year with 4 of my nephews graduating and me sitting through hours of speeches and boring videos? Tough, yiu do it because it makes the other person happy and you care about that person. Grow up. Not everything is about you, learn to give a little.

Ummmmm....She is doing what adults do. They decide when,where,why and how their family spends time with someone. She doesnt want to go and be around a bunch of damn drunks and that's her right as a person and adult. Why would anyone want their children around a bunch of damn drunks anyway? What child needs to see this or experience this

And it wont kill her mother to not see her on one day

[Guest]

My life doesnt revolve around my mother. I will do stuff with my own kids.

Once was enough for us

So it’s it your idea of fun, big deal. Will it kill you to just go and make the best of it? It’s what grown ups do. Do you think I had a blast this year with 4 of my nephews graduating and me sitting through hours of speeches and boring videos? Tough, yiu do it because it makes the other person happy and you care about that person. Grow up. Not everything is about you, learn to give a little.

[...MyLove...]

It's not something I'd be interested in attending. I don't blame you at all.

[flowerfunleah]

That must suck! Not having your birthday revolve around you, as it should, be. One of my best friends was born on Mother’s Day, she a,ways felt her birthday was an afterthought. So let me be the first one to wish you Happy Birthday!

4th of July parties are fun! Your mother's doesn't sound like a fun one if all people are going to do is get drunk. My birthday is the 4th of July and I'd love to move to another country where it's just another day instead of a national holiday.

Thank you!