If someone goes to hug you. Be it a friend, coworker, Random kid, your Aunt.... Whoever
Do you hug them? Do you stick your hand out to shake their hand instead? Do you scream don't touch me?
I am not a real touchy huggy person, so I will turn sideways and give them an awkward side hug. I do this with almost everyone except my kids and niece and nephew (I mean if I was married or dating someone I would let them hug me) even family gets awkward side hugs. I prefer to shake someones hand.
I do have a coworker who I allow to hug me, Why I don't know . I am just comfortable with him.
So do you hug people? Shake hand? just stand there and say hi?
S/O do you hug people?
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I hug my family and select friends.. I'm the person that waits outside the door at Church to avoid the greeting. I don't want to shake hands, hug, etc..no..just no. It cracks Dh up as I've always been such an extrovert, but the older we get I'm turning into quite the introvert.
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If someone goes in for a hug, I hug them but I am not a hugger so I will never be the instigator.
If someone went to hug me that wasnt an immediate family I might slap them out of instinct. That would be so weird
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This exactly.LuckyEightWow wrote: ↑Wed Jul 10, 2019 8:32 pm If someone goes in for a hug, I hug them but I am not a hugger so I will never be the instigator.
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I'm a hugger
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I'm totally fine with hugs. Family, friends, my close coworkers (been there over 12 years so I've worked with most for several years and we're genuine friends).
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I do a side hug if forced to hug people. I prefer people to not touch me. Funny thing is that I am a touchy person. I want to control who touches me. I have a few people who I don't mind touching me.