Would you be wary of this??

[Anonymous 1]

Ok what is the problem? Sounds like many first dates I've had.

I'm gonna go ahead with it.

[LiveWhatULove]

I am a 40 something, married female with 3 school-age children and a career. Now, maybe I’m old fashioned, but no, my demographic does not typically just get together with a man to drink some beers. Who the hell has time for that? So I’d be very wary.

Now when I was single, to me, that is code for chill, and probable S*x...

[Inmybizz]

Any more details?

[mojogirl]

You're either overthinking this or you've seen red flags.

[SisterSomeone]

There's not enough information here for me to answer that question.

I mean, at face value, I assume that this is an invitation to a date that will likely lead to S*x. Now, who is this guy? Do I want to date him? Am I interested in having S*x with him? Does he give me a weird vibe for some reason? Am I married? Are we friends and this is literally just an invitation to hang out and talk? This is all relevant info.

[Bubbs]

I am a 40 something, married female with 3 school-age children and a career. Now, maybe I’m old fashioned, but no, my demographic does not typically just get together with a man to drink some beers. Who the hell has time for that? So I’d be very wary.

Now when I was single, to me, that is code for chill, and probable S*x...

I wouldn't mind meeting someone fun for a drink. (I don't like beer) I have time. at least every other weekend.

[Anonymous 3]

Are you ready to date? If not, I’d say thanks but no thanks. Are you ready to date, but not into him? Same answer.
He’s asking you out, if you don’t feel a spark, don’t do it. Do you think he may turn into a creeper if you say no? That’s what your use of “wary” makes me think.

[Anonymous 4]

This may be a silly question; but before I chime in, are you married?

[agander2017]

I don't see a problem with it. As long as it's in a public place it should be fine. Drive your own car though.