Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:42 pmYeah i agree with you. If i was raised with that kid he's my brother. Gross.Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:38 pm Blood isn’t what makes siblings. I’m adopted, I didn’t share my brother’s blood, the idea it’s still disgusting. If she doesn’t consider him a brother, why isn’t her title “I married my mom’s DHs son” or “I married my step brother” then if that’s all he is? She called him her “brother”.
Anonymous 4 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 9:16 am You’re not siblings. You don’t share blood. Both of my parents’ spouses have kids. They aren’t my siblings. They are practically strangers.
My cousin (May she Rest In Peace) and I married to 2 men who happen to be brothers. Due to that, we shared in laws. Our children are technically 1st and 3rd cousins. It’s funny to explain to people, just looking at their confusion, then pointing out how it’s really nothing. There are no bloodlines being shared. Lol
But if he was my hot step brother that i just met 4 months ago and we just click, different story.
I married my brother
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Exactly. She did grow up with him. Just because they didn’t like each other until they were teens that doesn’t mean they weren’t raised as siblings.
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That's kind of funny. I bet their looks are the same as when I tell people my sister and I are only children. She's my half sister. I was raised by my dad and she was raised by our mother.Anonymous 4 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 9:16 am You’re not siblings. You don’t share blood. Both of my parents’ spouses have kids. They aren’t my siblings. They are practically strangers.
My cousin (May she Rest In Peace) and I married to 2 men who happen to be brothers. Due to that, we shared in laws. Our children are technically 1st and 3rd cousins. It’s funny to explain to people, just looking at their confusion, then pointing out how it’s really nothing. There are no bloodlines being shared. Lol
No we really didnt grow up together. Neither of us were at the house half the time. Most years we werent together more than a few weeks over the summer. My parents wanting us to siblings didnt make that the case.
Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:43 pm Exactly. She did grow up with him. Just because they didn’t like each other until they were teens that doesn’t mean they weren’t raised as siblings.
Dylexsmommy wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:42 pmYeah i agree with you. If i was raised with that kid he's my brother. Gross.Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:38 pm Blood isn’t what makes siblings. I’m adopted, I didn’t share my brother’s blood, the idea it’s still disgusting. If she doesn’t consider him a brother, why isn’t her title “I married my mom’s DHs son” or “I married my step brother” then if that’s all he is? She called him her “brother”.
But if he was my hot step brother that i just met 4 months ago and we just click, different story.
Her title is an attention grabber. From what the OP shared she barely saw the guy growing up. She clearly NEVER saw him as a brother, since she fell in love with him. You don’t fall in love with people you actually view as siblings.Momto2boys973 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 1:38 pm Blood isn’t what makes siblings. I’m adopted, I didn’t share my brother’s blood, the idea it’s still disgusting. If she doesn’t consider him a brother, why isn’t her title “I married my mom’s DHs son” or “I married my step brother” then if that’s all he is? She called him her “brother”.
Anonymous 4 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 9:16 am You’re not siblings. You don’t share blood. Both of my parents’ spouses have kids. They aren’t my siblings. They are practically strangers.
My cousin (May she Rest In Peace) and I married to 2 men who happen to be brothers. Due to that, we shared in laws. Our children are technically 1st and 3rd cousins. It’s funny to explain to people, just looking at their confusion, then pointing out how it’s really nothing. There are no bloodlines being shared. Lol
Did this really happen?
Or is this just your way of telling us that you refuse to accept that your step brother is your sibling?
Or is this just your way of telling us that you refuse to accept that your step brother is your sibling?
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In their minds, you are siblings, so it is hard for them to accept. If they are coming around to it, I would at least give them a chance.
I think it is only because they want grandkids.Olioxenfree wrote: ↑Sun Jun 16, 2019 7:16 pm In their minds, you are siblings, so it is hard for them to accept. If they are coming around to it, I would at least give them a chance.
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Meh. My ex husband’s cousin did the same thing. Except they had a baby in high school and their parents were cool with it. So much weirdness in that family. Glad I didn’t have a kid with him.