Would you be wary of this??

[MonarchMom]

Where? When? Will you be alone?

If that is the only message, it sounds like an invitation to hook up. If this is supposed to be a date, I'd expect to go somewhere public and time specified.

[Fullxbusymom]

As long as a public place I wouldn't have an issue. However, I would be taking my own car and leaving alone as well.

[xsxpxixdxexrxsx]

Has he given you bad vibes or reasons to be wary? If not, I'd go. As others have said, do it in a public place.

[Mommabearof2]

What do you think it means? Do people really not understand how a date works anymore?

[Inmybizz]

Why would that make you wary? Do you know the guy? Is he trying to date you?

[Anonymous 2]

Unless I knew him well and trusted him, I'd be careful not to drink too much or put myself in the position of needing a ride from him.

[Bubbs]

Is he trying to date or get to know you? Do you like or want to get to know him?
It doesn't sound bad, depending on the time and what he is looking for?

[jas]

Not nearly enough info on this. Are you married? Is he? Are you dating? Is he asking you out? It is just the two of you?

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[Deleted User 172]

Where? When? Will you be alone?

If that is the only message, it sounds like an invitation to hook up. If this is supposed to be a date, I'd expect to go somewhere public and time specified.

The first time he wanted to hang out was around 10:30 pm but that was just too late for me. He hasn't told me yet where we will be meeting for drinks. He wants to go out for a few beers. After reading this, how would you take it?

Depends on what you want from this guy.
It sounds like a hook up to me. That's late to begin a real date. If he had said 8ish then ok but 10:30? Sounds like just a hook up.

So what is it that you want from him?
Start from there.

[MrsDavidB]

Ok what is the problem? Sounds like many first dates I've had.