WWYD If...

[mama_danetta]

And I thought I had problems.

[WickedLauraBelle]

Good grief... that's a messed up situation. I have to ask, have you ever known your SS to lie about anything? Do you think he can be trusted?

I don't know who to believe in this scenario. Good luck though.

This. Wow. I'm at a loss

[Lexy]

This right here. All kinds of messed up.

Obviously everyone needs therapy, but aside from that I'm not sure. It's clearly a fucked up case of Hillbilly He said, She said. Y'all might never know what really happened.

Agree

[Momto2boys973]

Wow. It’s a messed up situation all around. Chances are, you’ll never really know the truth. It’s he said/she said and let’s be honest here, many false accusations are making the news by women who had consensual S*x and later regretted it. I don’t doubt girls all over the world are following the example.
I’m guessing family therapy is in order, it seems the dynamics were screwy for a while before that happened. And it hasn’t helped that the situation wasn’t addressed in a timely matter, who knows what’s been brewing in both of them since: guilt, resentment, doubt. It needs to be addressed and resolved.

[Valentina327]

I hear stuck up pussies.

LMAO ... Yes, how very stuck up and p**sy like to believe that you should not intermingle with your family.

Molestation from family members happens in the richest and poorest of families from all different background. It is not a redneck or hillbilly thing.

Your point is very valid and not what I'm referring to at all. Everyone knows that abuse crosses all barriers. It's the consensual part that my comment speaks to.

[Olioxenfree]

LMAO ... Yes, how very stuck up and p**sy like to believe that you should not intermingle with your family.

Molestation from family members happens in the richest and poorest of families from all different background. It is not a redneck or hillbilly thing.

Your point is very valid and not what I'm referring to at all. Everyone knows that abuse crosses all barriers. It's the consensual part that my comment speaks to.

That again, is something that happens in familes of all socioeconomic backgrounds. And in this case there is a large possibility that it wasn't consensual.

[BlessedMommie88]

Honestly it’s sounds like SS hasn’t changed his story and if he isn’t known to lie I would be prone to believe him. SD seemed to keep changing her story and you stated lied a lot. She seems to have a lot of issues. Maybe family counseling would help as well.

[Maggie]

So SD is a lying aggressor but you fear your SS?

[Guest]

So SD is a lying aggressor but you fear your SS?

I thought I made it pretty clear that while I don't know who to believe or what to do, I lean more towards believing my step son. That said, I have two other young daughters who live here. Any parent who wouldn't be concerned that he did possibly rape her and could potentially do the same thing to their other children is either crazy or stupid.

[Guest]

Wow. It’s a messed up situation all around. Chances are, you’ll never really know the truth. It’s he said/she said and let’s be honest here, many false accusations are making the news by women who had consensual S*x and later regretted it. I don’t doubt girls all over the world are following the example.
I’m guessing family therapy is in order, it seems the dynamics were screwy for a while before that happened. And it hasn’t helped that the situation wasn’t addressed in a timely matter, who knows what’s been brewing in both of them since: guilt, resentment, doubt. It needs to be addressed and resolved.

Yes. And they've spent time together- not alone- since this happened. She actually called my husband and asked for SS's new phone number. She asks to see him. She texts him. If she were fearful of him, would she do that? I don't know, the whole thing is awful and I wish it weren't true. I wish I could go back to that night and do something different, change the whole series of events.