My ex tries to ruin things when I date.

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and also sounds like your kids need some counseling too -- in order to learn how to live with parents like they have
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scemily526 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:30 am
Anonymous 1 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:28 am
Anonymous 2 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:12 am "I am an empath"
Is this a self diagnosis?
A therapist told me this. And my sister.
is that supposed to be some kind of excuse for how you behave? if so, your therapist is doing a very poor job of teaching you anything or even counseling you on your life
I went to a therapist for 3 years. I’ve known this about myself. It’s not an excuse for myself. I work on it everyday.
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Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:35 am
scemily526 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:30 am
Anonymous 1 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:28 am

A therapist told me this. And my sister.
is that supposed to be some kind of excuse for how you behave? if so, your therapist is doing a very poor job of teaching you anything or even counseling you on your life
I went to a therapist for 3 years. I’ve known this about myself. It’s not an excuse for myself. I work on it everyday.
sounds like you need to go back to someone different that will actually help you and your kids
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Anonymous 3 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:35 am
scemily526 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:30 am
Anonymous 1 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:28 am

A therapist told me this. And my sister.
is that supposed to be some kind of excuse for how you behave? if so, your therapist is doing a very poor job of teaching you anything or even counseling you on your life
I went to a therapist for 3 years. I’ve known this about myself. It’s not an excuse for myself. I work on it everyday.
A counselor?
A behavioural therapist?
A psycologist?
A psychiatrist?
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I told you 1000x on here already to stop involving him in your life AT ALL. No call, notes, responding back etc. But you won't listen. I'm out of advice.
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Tell your kids don't read your texts. The only time my kids are allowed to read mine is if I'm driving and I ask them to.
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There's a simple solution to this but I have a feeling that you are the type to make excuses for everything.
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MrsDavidB wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 9:20 am I told you 1000x on here already to stop involving him in your life AT ALL. No call, notes, responding back etc. But you won't listen. I'm out of advice.
I didn’t involve him. We have 3 kids together. I can’t change that. If you’ve never had to deal with this type of situation then your lucky. I try my best not to engage with him. Like when we had sports practice for the kids. I take them but he shows up. He tries to talk to me. I sit far away from him and I avoid him. I admit I have issues. I do my best.

Please have compassion. If not for me just have compsssion in your life.
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Anonymous 2 wrote: Wed Jan 09, 2019 8:12 am "I am an empath"
Is this a self diagnosis?

"Empath" seems to be the trendy new thing where I am. And also doesnt seem to be an accurate description of anyone who's claimed the label that I know.
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