My ex says I am breaking the court order because I wont bring the kids to his house for his visitation time...

[QuantumNursing]

Yeah. You’re not HIS mommy, it’s not your place to teach him a lesson at the expense of your kids.

She's also not his taxi.

She's her children's taxi, as are all parents until the time they can drive on their own. She takes them to school and doctors appointments, doesn't she? Important things they have to get to. Seeing their father is just as important, if not more so.

Only if it fits in with my schedule. Of it doesnt then they miss out

[BionicBunny]

And while i agree to an extent i think of spending fathers day with his kids was that important he would have made sure he was able to get them
My dd and son in law who do not have a vehicle made sure he had a way to get his dd tonight so he has her tomorrow

I almost thought you were op. Exceptions can be made for Father’s Day. There is no excuse. For the kids sake.

I had plans today that I was not going to cancel for my ex. My kids are spending the day with their grandfather and everyone besides my ex is okay with that

Then You should have taken them yesterday or Friday. Think of the best interest of your children:

[QuantumNursing]

I almost thought you were op. Exceptions can be made for Father’s Day. There is no excuse. For the kids sake.

I had plans today that I was not going to cancel for my ex. My kids are spending the day with their grandfather and everyone besides my ex is okay with that

The. You should have taken them yesterday or Friday. Think of the best interest of your children:

She already said she had plans this weekend.

[Anonymous 1]

I almost thought you were op. Exceptions can be made for Father’s Day. There is no excuse. For the kids sake.

I had plans today that I was not going to cancel for my ex. My kids are spending the day with their grandfather and everyone besides my ex is okay with that

Then You should have taken them yesterday or Friday. Think of the best interest of your children:

I worked both of those days and had plans after and had plans today. He can get them in two weekends if he makes an effort

I tend to make plans when I dont have my kids

[BionicBunny]

I had plans today that I was not going to cancel for my ex. My kids are spending the day with their grandfather and everyone besides my ex is okay with that

Then You should have taken them yesterday or Friday. Think of the best interest of your children:

I worked both of those days and had plans after and had plans today. He can get them in two weekends if he makes an effort

I tend to make plans when I dont have my kids

How far away does he live and how old are your kids. I agree the rest of the time is up to him, but knowing he is having problems with transportation it would have been in your children’s best interest for you to take the time to get them to their fathers for Father’s Day. It’s too bad they didn’t get to spend Father’s Day with their father.

[Anonymous 7]

Both of you care more about sticking it to each other rather than the kids.

[Anonymous 6]

It’s Father’s Day weekend. They should be with their dad. You can make him be responsible next time.

And while i agree to an extent i think of spending fathers day with his kids was that important he would have made sure he was able to get them
My dd and son in law who do not have a vehicle made sure he had a way to get his dd tonight so he has her tomorrow

I almost thought you were op. Exceptions can be made for Father’s Day. There is no excuse. For the kids sake.

Then dad has to make it happen.

[Anonymous 6]

Still, the only ones getting screwed over because both parents are more interested in winning than in doing what’s best for them are those kids. Seriously, 2 wrongs don’t make a right.

You do realize that by taking advantage of this situation to screw him over that the only ones you’re screwing up are your kids, right? He’s their dad and regardless of how much you hate the guy, they love him. Deal with it.

She isn't screwing him over. A grown ass man who really wanted to see his kids would find a way to get them. Not expect your ex to do all the transportion because you're so irresponsible you lose your only form of transportation.

It isn't her responsibility to make sure he gets his kids. He needs to be a responsible dad and an adult

[Anonymous 6]

This isn’t about her or him. It’s about the kids.

Yeah. You’re not HIS mommy, it’s not your place to teach him a lesson at the expense of your kids.

She's also not his taxi.

It doesn't matter. It is dad responsiblity

[Anonymous 6]

Yeah. You’re not HIS mommy, it’s not your place to teach him a lesson at the expense of your kids.

She's also not his taxi.

She's her children's taxi, as are all parents until the time they can drive on their own. She takes them to school and doctors appointments, doesn't she? Important things they have to get to. Seeing their father is just as important, if not more so.

Getting them to dad isn't her responsibility. Getting his kids are his responsibility if it was important to him , he would've made it happen.