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Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:48 am

I'd just get a FB too and not mention it. If he were really up to something bad you would think he'd be smart enough to silence the notifications. I wouldn't be thrilled but I'd try not to read too much into it.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:49 am

Honestly? I would do nothing. My husband is a grown man and can have social media if he wishes. It seems odd to me to have an issue with it when you are using social media in the form of this website. I don't see this as a hill to die on, but maybe it is for you. If you are that concerned, ask him.. A marriage cannot flourish without communication, trust, respect and love.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:51 am

I did it because you did it is exactly tit for tat.

bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:48 am
AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:45 am
bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:42 am Open your own Facebook and if he asks you about it, just say that since he has one, you assumed Facebook was fine now.
No to this. Tit for tat is not going to do good things for your marriage.
It’s not tit for tat. She wants one for the sale pages, so she should open one.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:52 am

AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:51 am I did it because you did it is exactly tit for tat.
bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:48 am
AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:45 am

No to this. Tit for tat is not going to do good things for your marriage.
It’s not tit for tat. She wants one for the sale pages, so she should open one.

Well that’s not the way I intend it, so there’s that.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:55 am

bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:48 am
AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:45 am
bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:42 am Open your own Facebook and if he asks you about it, just say that since he has one, you assumed Facebook was fine now.
No to this. Tit for tat is not going to do good things for your marriage.
It’s not tit for tat. She wants one for the sale pages, so she should open one.

Right? Can you imagine as an adult not being able to go on buy/sale pages to look for a used table. Crazy.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 10:02 am

MrsDavidB wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:55 am
bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:48 am
AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:45 am

No to this. Tit for tat is not going to do good things for your marriage.
It’s not tit for tat. She wants one for the sale pages, so she should open one.
Right? Can you imagine as an adult not being able to go on buy/sale pages to look for a used table. Crazy.

I really can’t! I’m so glad my husband doesn’t give a shit what I do. Lol.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 10:05 am

bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:52 am
AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:51 am I did it because you did it is exactly tit for tat.
bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:48 am

It’s not tit for tat. She wants one for the sale pages, so she should open one.

Well that’s not the way I intend it, so there’s that.

LMAO. You got me there...and I just spit out my coffee.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 10:21 am

Ask him about it. That's it- go from there.

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 10:27 am

AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 10:05 am
bluebunnybabe wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:52 am
AsteroidStar wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:51 am I did it because you did it is exactly tit for tat.

Well that’s not the way I intend it, so there’s that.
LMAO. You got me there...and I just spit out my coffee.

sorry about your coffee. I owe you a cup!

Unread post Mon Jun 11, 2018 10:48 am

mcginnisc wrote: ↑Mon Jun 11, 2018 9:49 am Honestly? I would do nothing. My husband is a grown man and can have social media if he wishes. It seems odd to me to have an issue with it when you are using social media in the form of this website. I don't see this as a hill to die on, but maybe it is for you. If you are that concerned, ask him.. A marriage cannot flourish without communication, trust, respect and love.

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