CUBA GOODING JR. HAND ON ACCUSER IN SURVEILLANCE VIDEO FROM BAR

[Poietes]

I'm curious at how many times HE was groped and touched simply because he's a celebrity and people wanted to say they touched him and you know it's ok to grab a guy and treat him like meat. I'm sure that actually happens to him quite often. I think every celebrity should press charges on every single person who touches them without permission no matter what.

[Valentina327]

Women are not delicate flowers that need a security guard to save them from a situation like this. . Slap him in the face and walk away. It’s shit like this that make women look weak.

He reached over his girlfriend and put his hand on the woman’s leg while she was taking. That’s the time to take his hand and remove it or get up and leave. She didn’t. She kept talking and allowed his hand to stay. She wasn’t helpless.

You don't even need to be dramatic and slap him. Just move, or pick up his hand and move it. Very simple. Many people touch people when they speak to them. If you don't like it, you let the other person know. This is beyond ridiculous.

I don't know a single decent man who touches women they don't know on the thigh or breast - within seconds of them sitting down.

He took her hand to kiss it. It's not like he walked up to her and went "honk honk" and grabbed two handfuls. It appears that it was brushed, not groped, in the act of taking her hand.

I've touched people while I've spoken to them. She didn't get up. She didn't readjust to get away from him. She didn't move his hand. Miraculously this was Ann assault hours and hours later.

She's full of crap.

[Lexy]

You don't even need to be dramatic and slap him. Just move, or pick up his hand and move it. Very simple. Many people touch people when they speak to them. If you don't like it, you let the other person know. This is beyond ridiculous.

I don't know a single decent man who touches women they don't know on the thigh or breast - within seconds of them sitting down.

He took her hand to kiss it. It's not like he walked up to her and went "honk honk" and grabbed two handfuls. It appears that it was brushed, not groped, in the act of taking her hand.

I've touched people while I've spoken to them. She didn't get up. She didn't readjust to get away from him. She didn't move his hand. Miraculously this was Ann assault hours and hours later.

She's full of crap.

I agree

[Smarties]

From what I see in the video they were all three all touchy with each other, but it all looked friendly. He has as much justification to make an accusation towards her as she does to him, with the reasoning in this post.

[TheReluctantHippie]

When I was 19, I fell asleep after a party at my best friend’s house. Hours later I woke up to some dude from the party laying in the bed I was in, stroking my hair and jerking off.

I didn’t scream, or get up, or shove him off me. Before that moment, I would have said that I would, should I find myself in that situation. But there, as it was happening... I froze. I was stunned and embarrassed I didn’t know what to do so I did nothing. Does that make it not an assault? Do I owe having had some kind of predetermined reaction for my feelings about what happened that night to be valid?

You don't even need to be dramatic and slap him. Just move, or pick up his hand and move it. Very simple. Many people touch people when they speak to them. If you don't like it, you let the other person know. This is beyond ridiculous.

I don't know a single decent man who touches women they don't know on the thigh or breast - within seconds of them sitting down.

He took her hand to kiss it. It's not like he walked up to her and went "honk honk" and grabbed two handfuls. It appears that it was brushed, not groped, in the act of taking her hand.

I've touched people while I've spoken to them. She didn't get up. She didn't readjust to get away from him. She didn't move his hand. Miraculously this was Ann assault hours and hours later.

She's full of crap.

[hotspice58]

She stayed, did not object and put her hand on him..

https://www.tmz.com/2019/06/13/cuba-goo ... -arrested/

Cuba Gooding Jr. definitely touched the thigh and breast of the woman accusing him of groping -- it's clear in this surveillance video obtained by TMZ -- but his attorneys seem to be interpreting the video much differently from police.

[hotspice58]

She was not asleep...she was wide awake.

When I was 19, I fell asleep after a party at my best friend’s house. Hours later I woke up to some dude from the party laying in the bed I was in, stroking my hair and jerking off.

I didn’t scream, or get up, or shove him off me. Before that moment, I would have said that I would, should I find myself in that situation. But there, as it was happening... I froze. I was stunned and embarrassed I didn’t know what to do so I did nothing. Does that make it not an assault? Do I owe having had some kind of predetermined reaction for my feelings about what happened that night to be valid?

I don't know a single decent man who touches women they don't know on the thigh or breast - within seconds of them sitting down.

He took her hand to kiss it. It's not like he walked up to her and went "honk honk" and grabbed two handfuls. It appears that it was brushed, not groped, in the act of taking her hand.

I've touched people while I've spoken to them. She didn't get up. She didn't readjust to get away from him. She didn't move his hand. Miraculously this was Ann assault hours and hours later.

She's full of crap.

[TheReluctantHippie]

Yeah, most assaults are not identical.

She was not asleep...she was wide awake.

When I was 19, I fell asleep after a party at my best friend’s house. Hours later I woke up to some dude from the party laying in the bed I was in, stroking my hair and jerking off.

I didn’t scream, or get up, or shove him off me. Before that moment, I would have said that I would, should I find myself in that situation. But there, as it was happening... I froze. I was stunned and embarrassed I didn’t know what to do so I did nothing. Does that make it not an assault? Do I owe having had some kind of predetermined reaction for my feelings about what happened that night to be valid?

He took her hand to kiss it. It's not like he walked up to her and went "honk honk" and grabbed two handfuls. It appears that it was brushed, not groped, in the act of taking her hand.

I've touched people while I've spoken to them. She didn't get up. She didn't readjust to get away from him. She didn't move his hand. Miraculously this was Ann assault hours and hours later.

She's full of crap.

[lunarprancer]

She stayed, did not object and put her hand on him..

https://www.tmz.com/2019/06/13/cuba-goo ... -arrested/

Cuba Gooding Jr. definitely touched the thigh and breast of the woman accusing him of groping -- it's clear in this surveillance video obtained by TMZ -- but his attorneys seem to be interpreting the video much differently from police.

I agree, I just quoted the article.

[HanSolo]

Yeah, most assaults are not identical.

She was not asleep...she was wide awake.

When I was 19, I fell asleep after a party at my best friend’s house. Hours later I woke up to some dude from the party laying in the bed I was in, stroking my hair and jerking off.

I didn’t scream, or get up, or shove him off me. Before that moment, I would have said that I would, should I find myself in that situation. But there, as it was happening... I froze. I was stunned and embarrassed I didn’t know what to do so I did nothing. Does that make it not an assault? Do I owe having had some kind of predetermined reaction for my feelings about what happened that night to be valid?

First of all, I’m sorry that happened to you. Second, I don’t know how you can equate these two situations. What did he do to her that was assault? Kiss her hand? Touch her leg? She was obviously not bothered. She followed the whole crew when they walked away.