BM is taking us back to court

[destinyangl21]

Since we had DD we stopped paying for things that were outside of the court order. We will buy clothes and school supplies, but things such as cars, car insurance, cell phones for the oldest two. SD is old enough to get a job to pay for her cell phone and her car insurance and gas. SS18 is making 13 an hour and is working 40 hours a week plus he lives with us rent free.

When the support was ordered DH was only making 30k and that was almost 9 years ago.

Now he makes 42k and she makes 26 an hour as a part time RN. (She works two days a week, sometimes three but "can't handle" working full time.)

I don't know if the child support is going to go up or not, it might since she is wokring part time I just think its bullshit. She needs to support her kids too it shouldn't all be on DH.

What was she making when support was initially ordered? It could very well go the other way... the Court can be asked to consider that she COULD work full time and just doesn't want to, as well as the fact that one child is over the age of majority and making his own money so your DH shouldn't have to pay support for him anymore.

The same 29k

[Anonymous 1]

All I got was that your dh has 3 kids and only makes 42k a year.

Yup and I make about 60k. So everyone's needs and most wants are met.

LOL

[Anonymous 2]

I could have sworn you posted a pic on cafemom of you in scrubs and you said you were a nurse

[destinyangl21]

I could have sworn you posted a pic on cafemom of you in scrubs and you said you were a nurse

No I never did.

[Anonymous 3]

All I got was that your dh has 3 kids and only makes 42k a year.

And i got mom has two kids work part time making $26 hr but can't afford her kids without child support. Hmmm

[destinyangl21]

All I got was that your dh has 3 kids and only makes 42k a year.

Yup and I make about 60k. So everyone's needs and most wants are met.

LOL

I'm glad that me being in a vulnerable state in my own marriage and having financial difficulties is funny to you. I pray for you and your family.

[destinyangl21]

All I got was that your dh has 3 kids and only makes 42k a year.

And i got mom has two kids work part time making $26 hr but can't afford her kids without child support. Hmmm

BM has two kids, works part time as AN RN. She gets child support for the two who live with us.

[Anonymous 1]

Yup and I make about 60k. So everyone's needs and most wants are met.

LOL

I'm glad that me being in a vulnerable state in my own marriage and having financial difficulties is funny to you. I pray for you and your family.

It is funny because you did this to yourself and you dont care. The only not funny thing is that you brought a child into this mess.

Dont pray for us. I would never let my children go without

I will pray for your daughter. She has two f**k ups for parents

[carterscutie85]

All I got was that your dh has 3 kids and only makes 42k a year.

And i got mom has two kids work part time making $26 hr but can't afford her kids without child support. Hmmm

BM has two kids, works part time as AN RN. She gets child support for the two who live with us.

Where do you live that you can't make it on 60k without child support? Because that would be plenty here for 2 kids.

[destinyangl21]

LOL

I'm glad that me being in a vulnerable state in my own marriage and having financial difficulties is funny to you. I pray for you and your family.

It is funny because you did this to yourself and you dont care. The only not funny thing is that you brought a child into this mess.

Dont pray for us. I would never let my children go without

I will pray for your daughter. She has two f**k ups for parents

How exactly am I a f**k up? Explain that to me? I always make sure on my end that she doesnt go without I'm not sure about DH. I am doing everything I can including selling all of my belongings to take care of her. I hIde money from him so that he doesnt spend it so I can take care of her.

I'm not perfect but I am a good mom. Despite what you and the rest of the internet trolls on here think.