BM is sad because I wouldnt bring the kids by her house before the first day of school

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Anonymous 6 wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 3:25 pm
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It’s rather sad that many women on this site don’t realize that it’s simply easier to go through life being kind and empathetic to others.
What is sad is that everyone thinks sm's should bend over backwards for bm. If bm really thought it was important SHE WOULD HAVE put forth the effort. I wouldn't do it either especially when i have kids to get to school.
So maybe women should stop marrying guys who really only want a nanny they can screw.
You are wrong. They don't marry women for a nanny. Only bitchy, jealous bm thinks that. Btw, i am a bm not a sm.
It isn't sm place to kiss bm ass and bend over backwards for her.
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Anonymous 6 wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 3:25 pm
Anonymous 4 wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 2:31 pm
Anonymous 2 wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:59 pm

It’s rather sad that many women on this site don’t realize that it’s simply easier to go through life being kind and empathetic to others.
What is sad is that everyone thinks sm's should bend over backwards for bm. If bm really thought it was important SHE WOULD HAVE put forth the effort. I wouldn't do it either especially when i have kids to get to school.
So maybe women should stop marrying guys who really only want a nanny they can screw.
How am I a nanny?
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Olioxenfree wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 1:41 pm
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Olioxenfree wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:57 pm It's one day and it's important, I would have made the effort to take them there.
It is not that damn important. Kids have a first day of school every year. Its not a once in a lifetime event. If it was so important then why did mom not make the effort
Maybe not to you, but it is to her and to many other parents. The mom doesn't have a car, it isn't that simple for her.
If it's important, you'll find a way. If not, you'll find an excuse. She has known for a while when the first day of school is. She could have figured out a solution to get there if she really wanted to. Uber, bus, friend, neighbor, etc. She was given options to see them and she turned them down and threw a fit like a child.
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Where there is a will there is a way.
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Olioxenfree wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:57 pm It's one day and it's important, I would have made the effort to take them there.
I would have done the same. I would have gone out of my way to accommodate what I feel is a reasonable thing. It would have meant a lot to the kids too.
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Fullxbusymom wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:08 pm
Olioxenfree wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:57 pm It's one day and it's important, I would have made the effort to take them there.
I would have done the same. I would have gone out of my way to accommodate what I feel is a reasonable thing. It would have meant a lot to the kids too.
The kids did not want to have to wake up more than an hour earlier than normal. They are not at all upset that they didn't see their mom. I don't know many high schoolers that would actually be upset by that
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Anonymous 1 wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:28 pm
Fullxbusymom wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:08 pm
Olioxenfree wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:57 pm It's one day and it's important, I would have made the effort to take them there.
I would have done the same. I would have gone out of my way to accommodate what I feel is a reasonable thing. It would have meant a lot to the kids too.
The kids did not want to have to wake up more than an hour earlier than normal. They are not at all upset that they didn't see their mom. I don't know many high schoolers that would actually be upset by that
Mine would have.
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Fullxbusymom wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:35 pm
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Fullxbusymom wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:08 pm

I would have done the same. I would have gone out of my way to accommodate what I feel is a reasonable thing. It would have meant a lot to the kids too.
The kids did not want to have to wake up more than an hour earlier than normal. They are not at all upset that they didn't see their mom. I don't know many high schoolers that would actually be upset by that
Mine would have.
Good for them. Why should 6 people go out of their way when one person put no effort into it? How does that make sense?
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Like the way Chromebooks are mandatory for them?
Fullxbusymom wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:35 pm
Anonymous 1 wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:28 pm
Fullxbusymom wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:08 pm

I would have done the same. I would have gone out of my way to accommodate what I feel is a reasonable thing. It would have meant a lot to the kids too.
The kids did not want to have to wake up more than an hour earlier than normal. They are not at all upset that they didn't see their mom. I don't know many high schoolers that would actually be upset by that
Mine would have.
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Fullxbusymom wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 4:08 pm
Olioxenfree wrote: Mon Aug 19, 2019 12:57 pm It's one day and it's important, I would have made the effort to take them there.
I would have done the same. I would have gone out of my way to accommodate what I feel is a reasonable thing. It would have meant a lot to the kids too.
But it wasnt reasonable. Not at all.
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